She’s too pretty. He’s too tall. He has weird hands. She reminds me of my sister-in-law. She has the same nose as my ex. She’s too thin (Seriously! I know, right?!). I prefer men with blue eyes. I prefer blondes. My ex was a blonde; therefore all blonde women are bitches. I don’t like guys with curly hair. I don’t like guys with straight hair. I don’t like her voice. And on. And on. And on.
LESSON: Some things are simply beyond your control.
I SO agree! Here's a little video I shot about this very subject:
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Love that Marci is the other person who has commented here. :) Wrote a blog post on the subject myself (http://playbillsvspayingbills.com/2009/11/15/getting-to-yes/). There are so many reasons people say no, it thus becomes imperative to focus on why people will say yes. =)
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